Approach Truth Straight into eye

Life, the more I am living it, the more It seems like self hypnosis. No matter how strong we mentally or physically are, existentially we are more or less like every other life form on planet. in terms of taking advantage of growth opportunity, vulnerability to environment,etc.

Humans have thoughts and emotions, which are above survivalistic skills, which marks difference. Even in humans there are so many differences.No one wants to die when happy, and still not want to live at some point of time frustratedIf we just tear away(atleast mentally) every religious or spiritual book, still life is such an undoubted mystery.Just tear it of interally, to breath in fresh air, and you will all coming out.

I have learned very hard way out is that, NO WORK in this world is more important than growing yourself. You want to help? It will be naturally done, even if you stay a beggar. Real growth has to be inclusive! means it will swipe its essense to people.

Success is not for getting distaste
I met a person gotten into 6th in Gate. But when he comes in class is either moaning or self boasting or scolding, so nothing is real parameter of success except your self growth in life. death is certain be he multibillioniare or footPather.  I don't say don't be anything, but whatever small or middle or big, doesnt matter what you become in socially acceptable levels, you will be fantastic person, as long as you are rooted closer and closer to this profound truth, and I am sure I don't know why but great good world needs will be natural and fulfilled just by sheer willingness and little effort of such people.

De-addiction must! 
It is hard to hear, but the more we addict ourselves to hypnotic music, chaotic world, pampering friends and loved ones, you will not feel the profoundness of the existence. I am not talking about even realization. But today I was sitting on swing perfect still for about 15 min and suddenly it felt like when the chambers of chaotic nature are closed, chamber of sublime profoundness opens. For those who say they never change, it is not so, a persons nature does change, internally definitely.But yes, nature is very careful about its variability to sustain and hence some of our characteristic habits, external in nature more or less doesn't change much, and hence a must never be parameter to judge.

Liking is a loose word
Suppose you are born in a family of cat, you whole life, your pysical preference everything will change. Ok assume

I challege scientists to conduct this experiment

Take a person, make him paralyse and use his message signals to make him move, from some lower age.
create a virtual world and a virtual body of cat which moves in this space. where it starts feeling, he is like a cat,
leave no trace that he is not a cat,
and soon you will find him loving cats,
his whole life will be to find beautiful eyes of her lover cat,
in his own beautiful eyes he will wish to cry meoaw after regaining human conciseness,

Only difference will be that it may be an evolved cat. Intelligent and with deeper emotions,
body, all different.If in such virtual world, any advertisements were to appeal us, it would be cat in bikini, or bareback male cats and all stupid advertisers would fool us in terrible ways. Strange!!!

Such is with us, living in particular regions, we start having differences, on surface,
but in this pseudo virtual world, our essence is not fixed onto a body.
Human can create virtual world, but virtual mind, in its essence is difficult, decision making . .  from scratch and not from biological imitation or exploitation, feeling and responding,
but someday(nearly impossible) if it does, than he must have evolved to creater himself. But you know the codeword of life can be cracked just by disconnecting sense distortions initally, than why to beat the bush around?


Money is powerful,no doubt, mind,etc all things are powerful, but they are powerless in front of cycles of birth and death. or at least fear of death. All are powerless in front of sheer power of vast nothingness of existence.(different from loneliness, loneliness is feeling of seclusion, but this vast nothingness of uncluttered inclusion at an indescribable level)

So you want to know what life is?
No one can know it, even when a man jumps from top of grand canyon valley to bottem, maybe in middle he may know what life is, but it need not be so risky, it has to be simple and universal in its very nature.

Can we rely on Media, which is master in manipulating our minds?
Can we rely on simply Thoughts, which bring about so much confusion?
Can we rely on simply emotions, which makes us feel so handcuffed by its power.
Can we rely on simply intelligence or senses, no way, it is just collection of data born inference, senses bieng its gates,

Suggestion
My humble suggestion, be a bit cold or insensitive to suggestion of people around, use your brain and common sense, and in heart of heart you know what to do.
Some suggestions are ok, but avoid blasts of them, be it friends or family or you yourself. it is like spum or rexine, if you wet it in ink, it won't get color easily, but you wet it long enough, it will all contain ink. Be like discovery channel which is busy discovering, than aastha or god tv giving suggestions to people. Obviously society is ok, like other animals we have a bit stricter norm but just it is needed for a man gifted with piercing brainy and emotional hights , but still norms are for running society well, but is society everything? How boring is life then? and if so, answer my question : Can you deny the above possibility as shown in inception of article?


Only answer comes out quite naturally is by just sheer loosing your self concern and just for some moments, for at least few moments be more than civilized animals, observe subtle things in and around.